A wedding at her parents’ Annapolis estate hurls high-strung Lynn into the fire of primal, Byzantine family dynamics. It’s the wedding of Lynn’s son, whom she was deprived of raising because of her acrimonious divorce, and a feud still rages between Lynn and her ex-husband’s hot-tempered wife. Meanwhile, the three children Lynn did raise display a panoply of disturbing behaviors like cutting and drug addiction, which Lynn’s mother and sisters alternately ridicule and blame her for. As Lynn attempts catharsis, her mother sweeps issues under the rug, but painful truths bubble and spurt. Clan members deploy ricocheting arrows to protect themselves—and wound others—as the fine lines between victims and perpetrators blur.
Many films have tread the terrain of upper-class family dysfunction, but few marshal as much sensitivity, rawness, and truth—and few performances penetrate as deeply as those of Ellen Barkin, Ellen Burstyn and Ezra Miller as they navigate the emotional minefields of unmet needs that span generations. –Sundance Film Festival
Ellen Barkin and Ezra Miller had wonderful performances. I'm surprised more people have not heard of this.
A solid cast and a script that does a better job than most recent wedding-set films more successfully mixes the dark humor with the pathos. Ellen Barkin gets her best role in more than a decade and Ezra Miller really shows he's someone to watch. http://eddieonfilm.blogspot.com/2011/02/if-anyone-believes-these-two-families.html
Another indie at the wedding. The director (Sam Levinson) who's inherited none of his father's talent, has seen Woody Allen, Altman and PT Anderson, but has none of either's abilities- the film is chock-full of terrible scenes, done in by overwrought dialogue and over the top acting. If it hadn't been for Ezra Miller it would've been a COMPLETE waste of celluloid (or was it video)... American indie film at its worst.
This film was sadly buried & no one seems to have seen it this year. Certainly flawed, but this is a very good film with some tremendously beautiful moments. The scene when Ellen Barkin lays in the grass under the tree, the mothers' wedding speeches, and the ensuing wedding montage were all wonderful. A well deserving B+. I LOVE SUNDANCE (the reason I watched it).
This was a messy film, but I think the fact that it was scattered added to its appeal. Just like the family depicted, the film has a real chaotic structure. Each member of this family is insane and… read review