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I Only Want You to Love Me

Ich will doch nur, daß ihr mich liebt

West Germany

1976

104 Min
Color
1.33:1
German
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DIR Rainer Werner Fassbinder

PROD Peter Märthesheimer

SCR Klaus Antes, Christiane Erhardt, Rainer Werner Fassbinder

DP Michael Ballhaus

CAST Vitus Zeplichal, Elke Aberle, Alexander Allerson, Erni Mangold, Johanna Hofer, Katherina Buchhammer, Wolfgang Hess, Armin Meier

ED Liesgret Schmitt-Klink, Beate Mainka-Jellinghaus

PROD DES Kurt Raab

MUSIC Peer Raben

Locarno (Special Presentations)

Synopsis

This film tells the story of someone who was unable to manage his life alone because the rules he adopted were useless for survival. In addition, while his needs went unsatisfied, the world refused to acknowledge his formulation. When Peter (Vitus Zeplichal), the main character, reaches a point where he cannot continue and no longer stands on firm ground, when all is put into question what he held to be right, he freaks out. He commits the type of murder that is later classified as senseless. In fact Peter points out the senselessness he feels about life by committing an equally senseless act: He murders someone. Now the others must take care of the rest. And they do: Peter gets a ten-year sentence for manslaughter – as though this would be a method to make him a smarter person. Peter spent his life before the crime with constant, unconquerable, compulsive attempts to gain the love of those important to him. Since Peter had little to offer, his relationships with others always turned into wearisome battles. When the issue was the love of his parents (Erni Mangold and Alexander Allerson), Peter had the feeling that he had to shout out “here” in order to draw attention to himself as it was so easy to ignore him. He began to give flowers to his mother regularly in order to feel her gratitude at regular intervals. This repetitive giving made the act one of blackmail. And it was blackmail indeed; hence the thanks became as mechanical as the gifts. Peter built his parents a house. Since he was a trained bricklayer and worked in this field, it was only logical to build a house for them on Sundays, when he was free and did not work on other construction sites. During this time, Peter and his parents were happy. The latter because of the house. And a few weeks after the topping-out ceremony the thing was forgotten. While the exchange – you give a house you receive love – had been successful, the deal was also complete – and over. Peter marries a sweetheart of his youth (Elke Aberle). He rushes away from the parents and moves to the city: He wants to show them that he is capable of standing on his own two feet. He makes himself independent of those who did not love him because of his submissiveness. In the big city, Peter gets into trouble. He has to furnish an apartment, he must feed his wife and soon a child, too. He never learned any of this, and the concepts known to him do not work here. There is no longer an employer who loves him just because he did a great job, and he does not even get paid. He attempts to thank his wife on whose love he so totally depends, by using the same schemes he got used to throughout his life: Peter will manage, Peter takes care of everything, not to worry. But Peter is worried, he does not manage, and when he sees that he is not going to manage the situation with his only skill – his hands’ labor – he ends his own life by ending the life of someone else. —Rainer Werner Fassbinder Foundation

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Rainer Werner Fassbinder

Rainer Werner Fassbinder (May 31, 1945 – June 10, 1982) was born into a cultured bourgeois family in the small Bavarian spa town Bad Wörishofen. Raised by his mother as an only child, the boy had only sporadic contact with his father, a doctor, after the divorce of his parents when he was five. Educated at a Rudolf Steiner elementary school and subsequently in Munich and Augsburg, the city of Bert Brecht, he left school before passing any final examinations. A cinema addict (“five times a week, often three films a day”) from a very early age, not least because his mother needed peace and quiet for her work as a translator, “the cinema was the family life I never had at home.”

Fassbinder made his first short films at the age of twenty, persuading a male lover to finance them in exchange for leading roles. He also applied for a place at the Berlin Film School (dffb), but was refused. He acted in both his early films: DER STADTSTREICHER (The City Tramp), which also featured Irm… read more

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Matthew Martens

28Apr12

Death on the installment plan. Zeplichal bears an uncanny resemblance, unless I'm imagining things, to the young RWF, and despite the radically different milieus of film and construction (perhaps not so radically different after all) it's easy to discern sympathetic parallels between the director and his protagonist, each as diligent as he is profligate, as talented as he is doomed, and as lost as he is in love

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trolley freak

26Apr12

Made quickly for German TV during a break from filming Satan's Brew and without starring any of his regular stock company, this unheralded film from Herr Fassbinder is actually a very personal reflection of his own childhood and adolescence and in its own quiet way may be one of his finest. Based on the true story of a construction worker who commits a violent crime in desperation, this simple tale is deeply moving..

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Franz Walsch

17Feb12

wow, having seen about 30 or so fass films, this has to be in at least my top 5, so heartfelt and heartbreaking, nicely shot, nicely acted, and it's so rare and inspiring to see an intensely sensitive male character in films like peter in this

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DeJardinblum

24Nov11

Melodrama of the castrated lumpenproletariat, the violent refusal of domination by the arbitrary destruction of expectation and usefulness; Fassbinder's scrupulous organization of what remains of an individual once their potential has been lost in the fractures of Lacanian and Marxist power structures. There is interest even on the cost of self-preservation.

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