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My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument

Comment je me suis disputé... (ma vie sexuelle)

France

1996

178 Min
Color
1.85:1
French
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DIR Arnaud Desplechin

PROD Pascal Caucheteux

SCR Emmanuel Bourdieu, Arnaud Desplechin

DP Stéphane Fontaine, Éric Gautier, Dominique Perrier-Royer

CAST Mathieu Amalric, Emmanuelle Devos, Emmanuel Salinger, Chiara Mastroianni, Jeanne Balibar, Marianne Denicourt, Thibault de Montalembert, Denis Podalydès, Fabrice Desplechin, Marion Cotillard

ED Laurence Briaud, François Gédigier

MUSIC Krishna Levy

SOUND Jean-Pierre Laforce, Mathilde Grosjean, Mathilde Muyard, Laurent Poirier

Cannes (In Competition), Toronto, New York, AFI FEST (Showcase), Rotterdam (Main Programme)

Synopsis

Paul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers? Is he avoiding the despairing life his father can’t escape from? –IMDb

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Arnaud Desplechin

Arnaud Desplechin is the son of Robert and Mado Desplechin, and grew up in the Nord department. He has a brother named Fabrice who has acted in several of his films, and two sisters: novelist Marie Desplechin and screenwriter Raphaëlle Desplechin.

Arnaud Desplechin studied film directing at the University of Paris III: Sorbonne Nouvelle, graduating in 1984. He made three short films inpsired by the work of the Belgian novelist Jean Ray, and became a great admirer of the films of Alain Resnais. During the late 1980s, Desplechin worked as a director of photography on several films.

In 1990, Desplechin directed La Vie des morts, starring several actors who would go on to appear in multiple Desplechin films, such as Marianne Dénicourt, Emmanuelle Devos, Emmanuel Salinger and Thibault de Montalembert. The 54-minute-long film won the Jean Vigo Prize for Short Films, and was shown at the Cannes Film Festival.

Desplechin’s first feature-length movie, La Sentinelle, premiered… read more

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Jazzaloha

25Apr13

A French version of Friends (the TV show).

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msmichel

11Apr13

Desplechin provided an epic length navel gazing exercise from the cream of the crop on young french actors in '96. It captured the privliged, ego-centric and emotionally damaged youth of the period in exacting detail. While not exactly likable characters they are certainly interesting ones. Performances are strong with kudos to Devos, Amalric and Balibar. Rohmer lite perhaps.

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rynmcgnns

7Jul12

Also, Emmanuel Bourdieu co-wrote this and other Desplechin films. Watch Poison Friends and you will see why that makes so much sense.

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rynmcgnns

7Jul12

The best of the three I've seen. He shares Cassavetes's interest in fraying relationships and his disregard for narrative compression, but he has a whole toy chest of cinematic bells and whistles that directors in this line usually deny themselves. Must be the nouvelle vague heritage. (Someone somewhere dubbed him "Rohmer on speed" -- not too far off.)

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By rizoman​tra on July 23, 2009

The characters are snobbish, cruel, agressive, insecure, lost in a world of doubts, narcissism and self-degrading. But they are also witty, articulated, sweet and really really funny. This film is…  read review

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