“You’ve got to have someone that’s able to rub your back and not just write you a little thumbs up. They don’t judge you or shame you. They don’t put you into that spiral. Because when you get older, even if you have the greatest of lives, you can’t help but shadow yourself with what hasn’t happened. It is a toxic way of living but it’s also a very natural feeling. This is why it’s wonderful to have a crew.”