Big: you love Carrie so much that you have to steal from Beethoven's "The Immortal Beloved Love Letters" poems to tell Carrie how You feel about her? Shame on you, man! Use your own words. You can't? >Newsflash: you don't love her - so you most certainly need not bother her with a proposal if you just daydream of becoming a couch husband & a tv-fed household appliance. Marry her IF you care:love&Caring is for lovers.