“But you know -- and my daughter will kill me for telling you this -- when my husband and I want to go upstairs and have sex, all that I can bring myself to say to my daughter is, "Daddy and I are going to have some private time." Private time! How daring I am. I have a neighbor who says to me, "Are you ashamed that your daughter knows her parents have sex?" and I'm not, but I just can't bring myself to say anything more to her than that silly "private time" line. Yet, we SHOULD talk to our children about it, don't you think?”